Helping Teachers Find the Joy in Teaching with Kim Strobel, ep. 272

Many instructional coaches face low morale and resistance from teachers.
So how can coaches help teachers reignite the spark of happiness and fulfillment in teaching in the midst of growing to-do lists and ever-rising demands? Tune in to this episode to find out!
Today, I’m joined by internationally known motivational speaker, educator, and author Kim Strobel for an inspiring conversation about helping teachers find the joy in teaching. Kim shares her personal story along with eye-opening research on happiness, well-being, and the importance of prioritizing joy. We examine why happiness matters so much for educators and how small habits can increase joy.
Kim explains what we’ve gotten wrong about the formula for success. Hint: It’s not working harder! She offers strategies for coaches to help teachers reconnect with their joy and build habits that support happiness, even with growing to-do lists and rising expectations.
The message from Kim in this episode is not your usual “try harder” advice! It’s real talk, rooted in research, and accessible for anyone supporting teachers right now. Whether you’re managing resistant teachers or just need a boost yourself, you’ll leave with actionable practices, plus ideas for weaving happiness habits into coaching cycles and PLC meetings.
If you’re ready to make joy a priority for yourself and your teachers, listen to the full episode now! The highlights are below!
What The Happiness Research Tells Us and Why It Matters
According to the research, if your happiness were a pie chart:
50% of your long-term happiness is genetic.
10% is determined by life’s external circumstances (i.e., class size, your commute, or if the copier is broken yet again).
40% is in YOUR CONTROL
What these numbers mean is that external life circumstances, things like your job, test scores, and income, account for very little of your overall joy. While genetics plays a big role, a full 40% of your happiness is within your control. These are your daily thoughts, day-to-day actions, and habits.
It’s easy to believe that if circumstances in our lives were different, we’d be happier. However, Kim reminds us that even in hard times, we can choose to cultivate more joy through our thoughts, behaviors, and everyday habits. That’s powerful news for educators overwhelmed by never-ending tasks and shifting demands.
Rethinking Happiness: The Real Formula for Success
Many of us grew up believing that happiness comes after we check all the boxes: good grades, a top college, a high-paying job, the perfect home, the picture-perfect family.
But as Kim explains, 30 years of positive psychology research tells us the opposite is true. It’s actually happiness that drives success, not the other way around.
When we tie happiness to achievements, we’re always chasing, constantly moving the bar. But when we prioritize our well-being and joy first, every other part of our lives gets better.
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The Coaches Toolkit: Top 5 Happiness Habits
Now that we know what the research says, how can instructional coaches help teachers build happiness habits that stick?
During the conversation, Kim shares the top five happiness habits that make the biggest impact on the 40% we control. She briefly explains each and encourages us to start by adopting one. If you want to learn more about them, you can grab Kim’s book, Teach Happy: Small Steps to Big Joy. You can also download a free study guide on her website that walks you through each chapter.
1️⃣ Practice Gratitude Daily
Create a simple two-minute gratitude journaling routine. Write down three specific things you’re thankful for each day. This simple practice rewires your brain for positivity. Get Kim’s free gratitude prompt and tracker on her website.
2️⃣ Move Your Body
Even a small amount of exercise can make a big difference in your mood and reduce stress.
3️⃣ Meditation
Try two minutes of deep, mindful breathing, which can rewire your brain and increase joy.
4️⃣ Random Acts of Kindness
Shower kindness on teachers. Kim recommends starting team meetings with a genuine compliment or note of appreciation.
5️⃣ Social Connections
Invest time in nurturing relationships.
Take small, consistent steps, starting with just one that resonates. When you practice these habits yourself and share your progress (and mistakes), teachers will follow your lead. Kim stacked these new habits into her existing routine to make sure they’d stick.
Helping Teachers Find the Joy in Teaching
My conversation with Kim added a little happiness jolt into my day! I loved learning about what the research tells us and the things we can do to add more joy to our lives.
I really appreciate Kim being vulnerable about her own journey and how happiness research helped her change her perspective. Her message was both empowering and practical. It really got me thinking about how I approach my work and support teachers.
Listen to the full episode to learn more about helping teachers find the joy in teaching!
Topics and Questions Discussed in Episode 272 – Helping Teachers Find the Joy in Teaching with Kim Strobel
- Helping teachers find the joy in teaching
- Kim’s personal journey into the research around happiness and well-being
- The science of happiness: What the research tells us and why it matters for educators, including teachers, coaches, and administrators
- The real formula for happiness and success
- What instructional coaches can do to support teacher happiness
- Five simple happiness habits coaches can introduce to teachers in meetings and one-on-one conversations
- The power of a daily gratitude practice
- Supporting teachers without the toxic positivity trap
About Kim Strobel
Kim Strobel is an internationally known motivational speaker, educator, and author of Teach Happy: Small Steps to Big Joy. She inspires audiences worldwide to reclaim their joy, lead with purpose, and create sustainable well-being.
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It includes forms, templates, and everything you need to get organized for instructional coaching! Coach teachers and document your coaching work with these printable and editable tools. Grab the Instructional Coach Binder Megapack in my TpT Store!
Turning Insight Into Action: Practical Steps You Can Take After Listening
Here are simple actions you can take today:
1️⃣ Try a Happiness Habit
Pick one happiness habit and commit to modeling it this week. Bonus points if you invite a teacher to do it with you!
Here’s an easy idea: Show gratitude by praising a teacher during a PLC meeting or in a newsletter you send to staff this week.
2️⃣ Listen to Episode 182 – Building Teacher Morale When Systemic Changes Are Needed with Suzanne Dailey
Check out Episode 182 “Building Teacher Morale When Systemic Changes Are Needed with Suzanne Dailey“. You’ll get tips for building teacher morale and learn how small mindset shifts can lead to big changes.
3️⃣ Join the Instructional Coaching Club
The Instructional Coaching Club is an online membership designed to help instructional coaches improve instruction at their schools. It gives coaches the tools to go out and do it.
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Learn more
- Episode 269 – Coaching Culture Starts with the Leadership Team with Dr. Christy Lamb
- Episode 270 – Coaching Culture and the Four Types of Teachers with Nicole S. Turner
- Episode 271 – Monthly Morale Boosters for Teachers
- Buzzing with Ms. B on Instagram
- Join My Facebook Group: Instructional Coaching with Ms. B
- Free Five-Day Challenge: Coaching Resistant Teachers
- Kim Strobel on LinkedIn @kim-strobel
- Kim Strobel on Instagram @kimstrobeljoy
- She Finds Joy Podcast with Kim Strobel
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